My eight-year-old son, Tyler, had always been closer to my mother than almost anyone else in our family.
Pregnancy& Maternity
When Tyler was younger and I was raising him on my own, Mom stepped in wherever my work schedule left a gap. She packed his lunches whenever I had early shifts, helped him prepare for spelling tests, sat through his school concerts, and somehow managed to remember every strange little thing that mattered to him.
So when her heart condition suddenly became worse this year, Tyler took it especially hard.
The surgery itself went well, but her recovery was much slower than anyone had expected. Mom was weak, constantly exhausted, and taking enough medication that she slept through nearly half the day.
I brought her home to stay with us while she recovered.
Tyler immediately appointed himself her assistant.
“Grandma, water.”
“I have water.”
“You haven’t drunk any.”
Mom would glance over at me.
“He’s bossier than you.”
“I learned from the best,” Tyler would say.
He brought her extra blankets, fetched her glasses whenever she misplaced them, and reminded me whenever the alarm for her Ali medication went off.
Sometimes he would sit on the edge of her bed and read comic books aloud while she rested.
