My best friend married my younger sister, who has Down syndrome.
Three years later, he almost died while giving up his twins.
As the doctors struggled to save her, Ben took me to an empty hallway in the hospital and whispered, “It’s time you understood why I really married Rosie.”
Then he handed me a contract with my parents’ signatures
What I read made me scream.
I was seven when I first understood that the world could punish my sister simply for being different.
Rosie was six, just a year younger than me.
He had soft brown curls, a laugh that filled each room and a face that lit up every time someone spoke his name kindly.
Not everyone did.
The children pointed it out.
They copied the way she spoke.
They laughed when she struggled to keep up during the games.
Every time I saw tears in her eyes, I stood in front of her like a little shield, my fists clenched to my sides.
Ben was the only other kid who never hesitated.
I had been my best friend since kindergarten.
Every time the teams were chosen during recess, Ben chose Rosie before anyone could leave her alone.
When he dropped his lunch tray in second grade and half of the cafeteria laughed, he sat on the floor next to her and ate his sandwich there.
“Rosie, we will always have Ben and me,” I said.
I repeated it so often that he finally believed it.
In fourth grade, Ben crouched down in front of her in the playground and made a promise I never forgot.
“When we get older, I’ll take you to the prom.”
