And no folder.
He apologized.
Mom listened to everything he had to say.
She didn’t forgive him on the spot.
Instead, she told him that rebuilding trust would happen on her terms, not his.
A few months later, Mom was back on her feet.
Last weekend, she called Tyler into the kitchen and asked him to help her organize some paperwork.
She pulled out a new folder and wrote across the front in huge letters:
ASK ME FIRST.
Tyler laughed sheepishly.
Mom handed him the marker.
“Add something.”
He thought about it for a moment.
Then, directly underneath her words, he wrote:
AND LISTEN WHEN I SAY SOMETHING.
Everyone became quiet.
Tyler looked at me.
I looked back at him.
I didn’t need to ask who the second line was for.